家家有本难念的经

家家有本难念的经….can’t think of any closest phrase in English to descibe this chinese phrase which I’ve heard it since I was born..This is what I see in every friend of mine recently..and including me myself…Spend every weekend with full of activities..like it will be wasted if there is a second sitting there doing nothing..and for me, sleeping is more wasteful..My friends and I used to go out on weekend to have a drink,chit chat..I think this is the most relax method to clear off one week tired mind and soul…Problem is always related to another people..’him’ or ‘her’..is not that we don’t want to solve the problem..we don’t even know how to speak it out..maybe is when you too understand a person, you know how he or she will response…you will lose mood when you think of the way he/she will answer you..In the end, better choose to keep quiet..I don’t want to complain anymore..Sick of arguing on the same issue over and over again..