Stop asking me that…

I am a fresh grad..my convocation will be held on August,12..can’t wait for that moment to come..not only because of ‘that piece of paper’, but to put on the mortar board make me more excited..

Well, I don’t know this is fortunate or unfortunate that we are not living alone..there are too many voices..i’ve been asked by too many people with the same question “Have you find job?”…. “What type of job are you looking for?”….I answered their question patiently at the beginning, but I start to get mad when the same question came from the same person everytime they meet me. I will shout back “I had spent 17 years on studies, now I take few months to relax, is that over?” Can I take some time to adjust my mood? It is my time, It is my life! May I??…. They continued but you don’t have money to spend… “Don’t have money means totally don’t even have a cent or what?”….do whatever job first… “What for??!your family wait your salary to buy rice ar”…no working not enough money to spend… “Money when got enough to spend one?”….I understand that, those who come from very poor family, they may need any of the family member to lighten the burden, even if the salary is only few hundred, because they have no choise. So, dun compare ‘ a no choice situation’ with ‘there is a choice situation’.

I would like to thank those friends and relatives who care about my job…for those who care too much, your care is ENOUGH for me…my life is mine..my life philosophy: life is to enjoy. Try to ask anyone in this world, when do you have the time when you don’t have to worry about anything, don’t have to worry about studies, jobs, family….After start working, you think you will have the time to enjoy?i mean fully enjoy??..No. Your responsibility will be only getting bigger, for parents, for children, for family… This is my best time to enjoy..and it will be the greatest moment in my life..don’t ever think about ‘can enjoy when I am old, after retirement..’…you can think so if you can predict tomorrow, predict future…..

For me, the most important moment is NOW.